What to do if your sex life is not harmonious

There are many reasons for sexual disharmony, such as a bad relationship between husband and wife, one of the spouses having a lack of sexual desire, or the man having sexual dysfunction, which can lead to sexual disharmony. When sexual disharmony occurs, the couple must work together to solve the problem with a good attitude. First of all, both parties should cultivate more feelings, and the couple should care about each other, but when the sex life is disharmonious, they should forgive and understand each other and solve the problem together.

What to do if your sex life is not harmonious

1. Cultivate more feelings in daily life

Married life is about two people enjoying life together, enjoying the happiness and love in their own world. If married life is regarded as a task, then this kind of life loses its meaning. Therefore, couples should spend time actively cultivating their feelings in daily life, communicate more with each other in life, and establish a harmonious emotional life.

2. Make the couple's life more regular

Many couples lack effective communication and family life, which leads to emotional breakdown and even divorce. In order to make up for the lack of emotion and reach a tacit understanding between couples, both parties agree to a more regular married life. This can not only meet the requirements of both parties, but also strengthen the intimacy between couples and improve the quality of life.

3. Husband and wife should be considerate and understanding of each other

When it comes to the quality of married life, both husband and wife must make sacrifices and efforts. Don't blame the stress of married life on one person. Married life must be integrated into everyone's heart. Both parties must understand and support each other to bring their emotions to life and enhance mutual trust and love between husband and wife.

Causes of marital disharmony

1. Psychological barriers: When a man and a woman first become a couple, the "disharmony" in their life is mostly caused by their respective psychological preparation and helplessness, and the woman's problem is more serious. Many women do not have enough understanding of "sex", they are overly idealistic or do not understand it at all, or some women have had sexual experiences, and they were failed experiences, which will affect the couple's sexual life and thus have psychological barriers when they actually have sexual life.

2. Intense life pressure: The main reason for this phenomenon is still work pressure. The accelerated pace of social life and the fierce competition have made professional women feel tremendous pressure in work and life. Therefore, busyness and tension have made them neglect the important married life.