What is frigidity?

Sexual apathy means lack of sexual desire. To put it more simply, it means no interest in sexual life and decreased libido. There are many reasons for sexual apathy, including lack of sex drive and sexual apathy syndrome. It is related to physical constitution and may also be related to some negative psychological shadows in childhood. For example, if one has some chronic diseases or reproductive diseases, it may cause sexual apathy.

Clinical manifestations

The symptoms of frigidity are manifested in two aspects: physiological symptoms and psychological symptoms.

1. Physiological symptoms

The main manifestations are: no response to sexual caress or insufficient pleasure response; no or little love fluid secretion, dryness, tightening, and pain in the vagina during sexual intercourse; no or insufficient pleasure, dullness, and lack of orgasm; underdeveloped sexual organs or atrophy and aging of sexual organs, lack of water and activity of cells, etc.

2. Psychological symptoms

It is mainly manifested in: fear, disgust and psychological resistance to sex; obsessive-compulsive disorder and serious psychological trauma about sex; insufficient knowledge of sex and lack of involvement; influenced by traditional concepts, not taking the initiative during sex, feeling ashamed and dirty.

treat

People with sexual frigidity should eliminate stress, concentrate on improving their own and others' pleasure, and find and eliminate the causes of low sexual desire. Men should not only get rid of their own negative emotions, but also help their partners overcome this psychological barrier. Help your partner understand the nature and possible causes of the problem, so she can avoid putting pressure on herself and promote communication between the two parties.

1. Traditional Chinese Medicine

Regulate yin and yang; replenish kidney qi; activate the gonad axis.

2. Psychotherapy

Psychotherapy. Some women, especially those who have been sexually assaulted, should undergo psychosexual therapy. It would be best if they could find a professional they are willing to trust who can listen to them and comfort their wounded hearts.

3. Massage therapy.

4. Acupuncture point auxiliary treatment.

5. Exercise-assisted therapy.

prevention

1. Eliminate negative psychological factors and correct wrong perceptions.

2. The sexual life between husband and wife should cooperate with each other and achieve sexual harmony in order to achieve a "win-win" situation in sex.

3. Actively treat diseases that cause "bad sex". Only by eliminating the "bad sex" diseases can you have a high-quality sex life.

4. Stop taking the "sex-removing" drugs. The "cooled" sexual desire of most people will be "ignited" again after stopping the drugs.

5. Read more books about sex knowledge, consult doctors more often, increase sexual desire, improve lovemaking skills, and allow women to truly enjoy sex.