What to do if it hurts the first time

Due to their special physiological structure, female friends often experience varying degrees of pain during their first sexual intercourse. Some people feel less pain, while others even experience a tearing pain. So what should we do about the pain during the first time? What can female friends do to relieve this pain? This article will give a detailed introduction to this issue.

The reason why it hurt so much the first time

In a natural state, the front and back walls of the vagina fit well together. When a foreign object is inserted into the vagina for the first time, the vaginal mucosa is subjected to unprecedented fresh stimulation, and our brain must recognize this new sense of touch. If we recognize this new feeling as touch, a feeling of being stretched, or a feeling of fullness, we will not have an emotional reaction of fear; if we have a preconception in our minds that the first night must be painful, then this new feeling will naturally be recognized as pain, making us fearful and afraid, because everyone is afraid of pain; if we have correct expectations for sex, then we will recognize this feeling as strong sexual stimulation and sexual sensation, which will make us sexually excited.

Different women's opinions on first time pain

1. Some novels and TV scenes are really exaggerated. The first night is not that painful at all. The hymen is a thin membrane, more fragile than plastic paper. Due to years of practicing dance and playing sports, there is not much area left, so there is no pain at all. Otherwise, why do we rarely hear married women say that their first night was extremely painful?

2. After getting married, I realized that many women would cry out in pain during their first time (first night). This is entirely due to their high mental tension. Because the woman is nervous, her whole body is stiffer than before, and the man is affected by the woman and also becomes nervous. As a result, because the woman is not relaxed, the man's penis is not aligned with the vagina and the woman will cry out in pain.

3. A woman's first time (first night) is said to be very painful, which is also a kind of art of married life. Since China has always had a virgin complex, if your husband finds out that it is your first time, he will cherish you even more. In addition, due to the lack of rich sexual experience, it is also common that the first insertion is only in the urethra, and urethral insertion is definitely painful.

4. Other reasons for pain cannot be ruled out, such as inserting when the vagina is dry, or moving too much.

How to relieve the pain of a girl's first time

1. Spend more time on kissing, hugging and caressing, which is called "foreplay", to make the woman fully excited and moist. This will make the woman's vagina more and more moist, and will also reduce a lot of pain during entry.

2. If the vagina is still dry and cannot be aroused enough, it is not a bad idea to use lubricant to moisten it. During the penetration process, it is best for women to actively tell men about their feelings, so as to achieve two-way communication and adjust the angle and amplitude of penetration at any time to reduce pain.

3. The woman should tell her how she feels at the right time, and the man should try to move gently and with a smaller amplitude;

4. Changing positions, for example, side by side or with the woman on top, will improve the situation;

5. If the pain persists or bleeding occurs frequently after sexual intercourse, you should see a doctor to prevent disease.