Why is ejaculation too slow?

Slow ejaculation is also quite common in life. Some people think that slow ejaculation is a good thing. In fact, it is not. Sometimes sexual intercourse lasts too long, which often makes both parties feel particularly tired, and affects the quality of sexual life. There are many reasons for slow ejaculation, including psychological reasons and possible difficulties for men to orgasm. Let us learn about it below.

Why is ejaculation too slow?

While most women complain that their husbands are quick movers, there are also women who complain that men are slow movers, which makes them unbearable and miserable. It is true that about 8% of men always have problems with difficult or slow ejaculation. Each time they ejaculate for 20 to 30 minutes or even longer, their wives are exhausted and their tempers become more and more irritable. In fact, their wives only need a few minutes, or at most eleven or twelve minutes. Although they also try to speed up the ejaculation process by intensifying fantasies, the effect is very limited. Not to mention the wives of men who don't ejaculate. Not only do they have a hard time, but they can't even fulfill their dream of having children.

Men may have difficulty orgasming

Middle-aged men are particularly prone to this problem, while younger men rarely have this difficulty. After middle age, men's erectile ability declines and the hardness of the penis after erection is poor, so the friction stimulation caused by twitching is not strong enough, and they often need stronger stimulation. In addition to physical problems, whether the relationship between the two parties is coordinated and tacit is also very important. To solve this problem, it requires the joint efforts of both parties. Skills need to be honed and practice increases talent. Difficulty in achieving orgasm for men is like facing a deep trench. It requires a brave leap. The more timid you are, the harder it is to jump over it. The more you think about it, the heavier the psychological burden becomes, and the worse the situation becomes. At this time, you can lower the difficulty first and don't expect to succeed all at once. It is necessary to create an environment without much psychological pressure. You can start by jumping from narrower and shallower trenches, then you will naturally not be nervous. Usually it starts with masturbation by oneself, gradually exploring and mastering the techniques to speed up sexual response; then do it in front of the partner, who can go from watching from a distance to watching up close, and then to directly participating in and helping the man masturbate; finally the partner can help the man masturbate with the penis close to the vaginal opening, and when the man is about to ejaculate, immediately insert the penis into the vagina and continue pumping until ejaculation. This step-by-step training procedure is often an effective solution.

Consider adverse drug reactions

Antidepressants, for example, often have this effect of inhibiting ejaculation. If the patient's long-term medication problem can be ruled out, then we should consider what factors can catalyze and accelerate the male orgasm response. Such as what kind of posture? What kind of fantasy? What is the atmosphere like (is it safe and private enough to not be disturbed)? Moreover, these measures are also something that partners are willing to accept and assist with, so there is no unified prescription or procedure. If the man is indeed someone who lacks the ability to control himself, then he will be disorganized and messy in everything, and orgasm is indeed the most difficult problem to control. Don't hold yourself back. When you feel pleasure, just shout and let it out boldly. Men should tell the other person about their fears or discomfort in order to gain the other person's understanding and support, but if the other person has been and is always arrogant and condescending, you should consider whether such communication is safe.