Accompanying children through the rebellious period of three years old

As a child grows up, we will find that the child is constantly growing, from a child who knows nothing, to gradually learning to walk, gradually learning to talk, gradually learning to smile, and slowly beginning to have his own thoughts. When the child is three years old, you will experience for the first time that the child begins to oppose you and begins to disobey. This is the child’s first rebellious period. So, how do you accompany your child through the three-year-old rebellious period?

Raising a child to adulthood is a long race, and we will encounter many difficulties and obstacles along the way. Among these obstacles, the rebellious period may be a mountain on the road. Adolescents are in a period of psychological transition. Their sense of independence and self-awareness are increasing, and they are eager to break free from the supervision of adults (especially their parents). They object to their parents treating themselves as children and instead regard themselves as adults. In order to express themselves, they tend to be critical of everything.

For many parents today, getting along with their children is very important, and many children are greatly affected in their study and life when they are rebellious. At this time, we should learn to get along well with our children. So, as parents and family members, how should we get along with our children at this time? Next, let us learn about it together. There will definitely be a lot of gains, and it will make a big change to our lives.

Steps/Methods:

1 First of all, for many of us, as parents, we should learn to stay calm. Impatient parents should remind themselves to stay calm and wait until their children calm down before communicating. This will have a great impact on their children.

2 Secondly, don’t be too harsh on children in their rebellious period. You should know how to reason with them and appeal to their emotions, but don’t be too long-winded, otherwise it will cause the child to be disgusted. As a parent, you should patiently accompany your child through the rebellious period and try not to beat or scold them, as this will make the child rebellious.

3 Finally, communicate more, guide more, and don’t force. At the same time, we must learn to use education as the main method and punishment as the auxiliary method. Don’t insult your children too much, and don’t let your children have a rebound mentality. Therefore, we must pay more attention.

Note:

Parents need to adjust their mindset. It is normal to see that their children have a rebellious mentality and go against their parents. Therefore, as a parent, you must have a lot of patience, because every child will go through such a period of time, and you must also understand your children more.