Can narrow-minded people change?

We all know that some people have narrow minds and some people have broad minds. This is caused by the environment in which each person lives. If you always care about trivial matters, your mind will become narrow and you will have more and more troubles. So if you want to change your narrow-mindedness, you can change your living environment, try to control your temper, and read more books to change your personality.

Doing exercise can help you vent your emotions. For example, if you are angry with someone because of your narrow-mindedness, you can vent your emotions through exercise, but it will not have a positive effect on changing your mood.

There is no specific book that can change a narrow-minded person, but you can read some books that you think will make you think about your personality.

I think we should look at ourselves rationally, because I am actually a narrow-minded person. I often have disputes with classmates and partners over trivial matters. I can empathize with your problem. I think if you have a bad personality, you should look at your own personality traits rationally, and think rationally about what you should have done at that time, why you are narrow-minded, is it out of jealousy or other reasons, why you can't tolerate others, etc. Think carefully and rationally, don't get angry. If you are really angry, do something else first.

What to do when you meet a narrow-minded person

Correctly define narrow-mindedness.

Some people always think that others are not generous, and sometimes are a little stingy in doing things or being a person, which means they are narrow-minded. In fact, there is no need to make a big deal about this. As long as it is a normal situation, it can be understood and you don't have to take it too seriously.

Reject their negative energy.

Some people may have weaker personalities, but they are very organized when doing their own things. Such people may not be good followers morally, but we cannot learn from them, let alone accept their negative energy.

Distinguish between responsibility and accountability.

For those narrow-minded people, we must make it clear to them what responsibility is and what accountability is. They should not shift the responsibility they should bear onto others, and they must not vent their dissatisfaction everywhere for no reason.

Set a good example for others.

Because the other party is a narrow-minded person, then, we should try our best to be an open-minded person in front of them, and not be those who are petty and say one thing and mean another. When encountering problems, it is better to use negotiation as much as possible.

Educate the other party with facts.

If the other person has not yet realized that he is a stingy person, or a person who is difficult to get along with, then we should fight back with practical actions, at least to let the other person know that there is another opposing voice and that he needs to remain calm.

No adverse effects.

If you are with a narrow-minded person, such as a classmate or colleague, and these people have a great influence on you, we must be able to discover the problem in time, find out the problem carefully, and give the other party time to correct it.

If one's ideas do not agree, one cannot work together.

If the person is stingy or not very generous, we should try our best to change him, but if we cannot do so, we should also pay attention that if we do have different ideas, there is no need to force it. It would be easier not to be friends.