Why was it so painful the first time?

As boys and girls mature physically and mentally, they will have their first sexual intercourse. This is something that every adult boy and girl should experience. China is not as open as other countries in terms of "sex", and minors only know a little about many things related to "sex". I believe that people who have never had sex have heard from others that the first time will be very painful. Is it true that it hurts the first time? If it's true, then why does it hurt so much?

Because the pain of sexual intercourse itself is closely related to the psychological state, psychological tension cannot produce sexual excitement well. Therefore, pain during first night is often more of a common pain during sexual intercourse. Many married women also face such pain. The first night only adds "trauma" as a possible factor. In fact, the pain that this trauma may cause is generally very small, and the pain during sexual intercourse can actually aggravate the pain. If your hymen is really large and has low elasticity, then you can just break it for the first time and don't continue to rub the wound. A well-elastic hymen may not rupture.

Generally speaking, the first factor of pain is the tearing of the hymen. In fact, the most important thing is that women do not go through steps such as caressing during their first sexual intercourse, which leads to insufficient vaginal love fluid and dryness. It will be very painful for men to insert their penis directly into their vagina. Vaginal dryness often leads directly to painful intercourse. Vaginal dryness means insufficient or no lubrication. This condition can occur when there is no sexual arousal or when stimulation is insufficient.

At the same time, psychological tension can also lead to insufficient lubrication secretion. Coincidentally, these are the problems that often arise on the first night. Then, the hymen itself is a friction barrier. The problem was exacerbated. Furthermore, vaginal tension is also a serious problem. It may be severe enough to cause vaginismus. Vaginismus can make sexual intercourse impossible. Think about an injection; when we are forced to undergo a painful insertion, it in itself exaggerates the pain. Therefore, the sublimation of pain aggravates the pain.

The essence of the first night is that you need to go through pain to get happiness. Therefore, this kind of rendering is very contagious to both men and women. Yet this literary myth is accepted as fact. Then, during the first night, women will naturally feel nervous and “afraid of pain”. What's more, the first sexual experience itself is extremely stressful.

Pain during sexual intercourse is a very common sexual problem in women. There are many reasons for this, such as bacterial infection, drug stimulation, object allergy, and even excessive vaginal cleaning. However, there are two common underlying factors that contribute to dyspareunia. That is vaginal dryness and vaginal tightness. The essence of sexual intercourse is physical friction. Our skin often becomes uncomfortable when it rubs without lubrication. If it is the epidermis of the esophagus, gastroscopy will be extremely uncomfortable.