What is nervous ejaculation?

Nervous ejaculation should be regarded as a type of premature ejaculation. We know that there are many reasons causing premature ejaculation, especially psychological factors, which play an important role. The causes of these psychological factors are also relatively complex. For example, if men lack some sexual knowledge and experience in their sexual life, it is easy to cause nervousness and this kind of ejaculation. Let us learn about it.

What is nervous ejaculation?

There are many psychological factors that cause premature ejaculation. For example, many people fall into premature ejaculation due to fear of sexual failure and emotional anxiety for various reasons; those who are used to masturbating when they are young always aim to reach orgasm quickly; those who lack sexual knowledge and only aim to satisfy men; couples who are not good at tacit cooperation; emotional disharmony, disgust towards spouse, and intentional or unintentional sadism; those who worry that sexual behavior is harmful to health and aggravates certain inherent diseases of the body; those who have infrequent sexual intercourse or long-term sexual repression; and women who hate sexual intercourse, are worried, and are forced to end sex quickly. All of these can lead to premature ejaculation and even cause a chain reaction, affecting the ability to have an erection. The organic factors that cause premature ejaculation are being explored. Some people believe that spinal cord diseases such as multiple sclerosis or spinal cord tumors, epileptic seizures, or organic lesions of the cerebral cortex such as cerebrovascular accidents can cause uncontrolled ejaculation. There are also reports suggesting that diabetes, cardiovascular disease, pelvic fractures, genitourinary system diseases such as urethritis, prostatitis, seminal vesiculitis and prostatic hyperplasia are all related to premature ejaculation.

1. Psychotherapy

It requires collaboration between husband and wife, and it is especially important for the wife to participate in the treatment. Psychological treatment for premature ejaculation requires the cooperation of the patient's wife. The woman's misunderstanding or complaints will increase the man's tension and anxiety, increasing his psychological burden. The woman should be considerate and caring, and give verbal and behavioral comfort to relieve the man's nervousness and help him build confidence in recovery. Both husband and wife should be informed that premature ejaculation is a relatively common problem. Both husband and wife need to understand the necessity and possibility of rebuilding the conditioned reflex of ejaculation, eliminate the patient's abnormal psychology such as anxiety, uneasiness, and guilt, and build confidence in curing the disease. As long as both parties cooperate with the treatment, it can be cured.

2. Behavioral method guidance

The purpose of sexual focus training therapy is to teach patients to experience and enjoy sexual pleasure and overcome psychological barriers through tactile stimulation such as hugging, caressing, and massage. You can also pull the scrotum and testicles downward before reaching orgasm, or squeeze the glans with your thumb and index finger to reduce sexual excitement, which can also reduce the hardness of the erection by 10% to 25%. After long-term training, sexual intercourse is performed with the woman on top, and the training is repeated in the form of twitching-stopping-twitching again, so as to gradually increase the ejaculation stimulation threshold, so as to achieve more satisfactory artificial control before ejaculation.