When encountering a woman with sexual indifference, this is what a Chinese medicine doctor does

Sex is a catalyst for the relationship between husband and wife. If a woman becomes sexually apathetic during their marriage, it will affect the harmonious life of the couple. So what should we do if a woman becomes sexually apathetic? How to regulate female sexual frigidity?

What is female frigidity

Sexual apathy, also known as lack of sexual desire or coldness, is one of the sexual dysfunctions or disorders and is a common sexual dysfunction in women. The main manifestations are that women lack sexual desire, have no demand for sexual life, express indifference, dislike or disgust towards sexual intercourse, and feel anxiety, discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse.

In most places, more than 25% of women have experienced or still experience sexual apathy. Only a few women can reach orgasm almost every time they have sexual intercourse, and about half of women have more or less experienced not reaching orgasm.

The reasons for women's frigidity

Psychological shadow has a great impact

Some women have sexual apathy, which may be because they have a bad psychological impression of sex. The shadow exists in their hearts for a long time, causing them to reject sex, and naturally their desire for sex will decrease. This situation may be caused by improper infringement upon the child's childhood, such as child sexual assault, or being assaulted by an adult when he was a child. Such behavior will leave a psychological shadow on the child.

Another reason is that during the first night, men are too rough in sex, which leaves women with the impression that sex is painful and torturous. From then on, I had no good feelings about sex life, only fear, and developed a mentality of aversion to sex.

Accepting wrong sexual beliefs

For some women, the problem of sexual apathy when they grow up is most likely because they have accepted wrong sexual concepts since childhood. For example, living in a very traditional family, strict elders have always taught that sex is wrong, a good woman should not enjoy sex, having sex with men is a very shameful thing, etc. When a woman is exposed to such ideas since childhood and has normal sexual desires when she grows up, she will naturally try hard to restrain herself. Over time, she will naturally develop into sexual frigidity.

Even if such women have a normal married life, they will often appear very restrained and depressed during sex. For example, they will not take any initiative and are completely directed by their partners. Even the pleasure of sex will be suppressed, and the whole sexual process will be very dull. The quality of sex is definitely difficult to guarantee.

Fear of pregnancy

Some women worry too much about getting pregnant during sex, which leads to a worrying mentality that takes up a large part of the entire process. They are unable to devote themselves to sex, which gradually leads to a decrease in sexual desire. Not having plans to get pregnant for the time being or having a history of abortion can cause women to worry too much about pregnancy. If you find that you are unable to fully commit yourself during sex every time, you should face this problem as soon as possible. If you allow it to develop freely, the psychological pressure will eventually cause the problem to become bigger and bigger.

Changes in the relationship between husband and wife

Women's sexuality is based on love. There can be sex only when there is love. Therefore, if there are emotional problems between a couple, the woman's sexual desire will temporarily decrease. This situation is selective sexual indifference. Once the relationship problems between husband and wife are properly dealt with, they will naturally disappear. It makes sense that a harmonious sex life comes from a harmonious relationship between husband and wife.

Sexual desire is a normal physiological need of all animals. Healthy sex between men and women is the sublimation of emotions and is beneficial to physical and mental health. The temporary problem of low sexual desire is not terrible. Both husband and wife must be open and honest, help each other, and respect each other in order to achieve harmonious sex.

How to treat female sexual frigidity?

1. Diet adjustment

It is advisable to eat more foods that have the effect of nourishing the kidneys and strengthening libido, such as leeks, carrots, dog meat, mutton, bird meat, bird eggs, river shrimps, sharks, turtles, squid eggs, and royal jelly.

2. Diet therapy

① Spring Warm Soup

15 grams of ginseng, 15 grams of Morinda officinalis, 15 grams of Atractylodes macrocephala, 15 grams of Eucommia ulmoides, 9 grams of Psoralea corylifolia, 3 grams of cinnamon bark, and 15 grams of Cuscuta australis. Decoction in water, 1 dose per day, twice a day.

②Shengyangzaoshi Decoction

3 grams of galangal, 3 grams of dried ginger, 3 grams of Prunus mume, 3 grams of licorice, 1.5 grams of tangerine peel, 1.5 grams of astragalus, 0.9 grams of white sunflower, 0.9 grams of bupleurum, and 0.9 grams of cimicifuga. Decoction in water, 1 dose per day, twice a day.

③Yin nourishing and moistening soup

30 grams of Ligustrum lucidum, 30 grams of Eclipta prostrata, 30 grams of Polygonum multiflorum, 15 grams of Lycium barbarum, 15 grams of Morinda officinalis, 12 grams of Ophiopogon japonicus, 12 grams of Cornus officinalis, and 3 grams of dried tangerine peel. Decoction in water, 1 dose per day, 2 times a day, 6 days as a course of treatment.

④ Guixin Decoction

12 grams of cinnamon heart, 12 grams of calcined oyster, 12 grams of peony, 12 grams of dragon bone, 12 grams of roasted licorice, 12 dates, and 15 grams of ginger. Grind the above ingredients into coarse powder and decoct in water for oral administration.

3. Acupoint massage

The patient lies on his back, and the operator rubs the lower abdomen with his palms in a clockwise and counterclockwise direction, 30 times each. Press the Qihai, Guanyuan, Zusanli and Sanyinjiao points for 1 minute each. The patient lies in the prone position, and the operator presses the kidney point, heart point, liver point, and life gate point with one finger for 1 minute each. Rub the area below the Jingmen point on the left or right side of the back with your palm for 5-10 minutes. The patient then lies on his back, and the operator uses the four fingers of both hands to knead the patient's Yinlian and Wuxing points on the upper inner side from top to bottom, passing through the Yinbao to the Yinlingquan point below the knee, and repeats 3-5 times.

Natural herbs such as bee pollen, turnip leaves, hollyhocks, saw palmetto, and Siberian ginseng have certain therapeutic effects on low libido.