Couples massage, four steps to climax quickly

For couples, there are many ways to promote emotional life, and of course, sex life is an indispensable part of it. Generally speaking, using appropriate massage methods before sexual intercourse can allow both parties to reach orgasm quickly. Therefore, the following article will introduce you to the couple massage method that can quickly bring about an orgasm.

The first step is to understand your wife’s emotions at the time.

When a husband wants to have sex, he must first carefully observe his wife's mood at the moment. He can test her with words or gently touch her with his hands to see how she reacts. If your wife shows negative emotions such as anger, disgust, pain, etc., it is best to stop immediately, because all the methods introduced below will only help your wife feel better, but will not be able to break through her firm refusal. If you insist on using it, it will only backfire. Therefore, sex massage is not suitable for couples who are very incompatible in their relationship, and it is even less suitable for couples who are already sleeping in separate beds or living separately.

The second step is to be naked together without having sex first.

Some wives may not want to be completely naked, so they can keep their bras and panties. Some wives don't like too bright light, so you can do it in dim light or darkness. However, the wife must expose most of her body and allow the husband to vaguely see and touch it, otherwise it cannot proceed.

Many younger husbands become so impatient at the thought of having sex or at the sight of their wives naked that they begin intercourse without even having time to do anything else. For those wives who are slow to react, this is not a beautiful thing, but hurt and torture. The husband must truly understand this in his heart. In terms of specific methods, an overly eager husband does not have to be completely naked, or simply not take off his clothes; he can also squat quickly several times in succession to make himself more relaxed both physically and mentally, and then start massaging his wife. If even these don't work, it's best not to massage at this time, and wait until next time when you are not so anxious. Some husbands massage their wives after sex. However, husbands who are not sure of themselves should not do this, because if the husband is unable to massage his wife after sexual intercourse, she will feel doubly disappointed and dissatisfied.

Step 3: Massage your neck and shoulders.

It is best for the wife to lie flat on her back, and the husband can massage her from behind or from the front, preferably using both hands. At the beginning, the main thing is to experiment with how much strength to use and what kind of massage techniques to use. There are no fixed rules. A husband should always ask his wife how she feels or observe her reactions carefully. In this way, it is not difficult to find your wife's favorite massage technique. The time can be long or short, but it is best to continue for a few minutes after your wife feels best.

Step 4: Massage your back or waist.

Be sure not to touch your wife's buttocks and genitals, just massage the "waist". The order should be from shoulder to waist. You can always follow this order or move back and forth. Massage techniques are very particular and complicated. There is no need for couples to study them in such depth. As long as the wife feels good, she can guide the husband to continue doing so. For some wives who are more sensitive, light touch, virtual touch, or indirect touch can also be used, but it is best to have training in advance.