What would happen if you did it three times a day?

Sexual impulse is a normal phenomenon for human beings. Many people have the habit of masturbation. In fact, proper masturbation is good for the human body. Proper masturbation can help people vent their sexual impulses. Occasional masturbation will not cause too much harm to the human body, but frequent masturbation will affect the male reproductive organs. Therefore, it is generally best to reduce being alone, maintain good living habits, exercise properly, and reduce sexual impulses.

The harm of long-term masturbation

1. Central nervous system and systemic symptoms such as depression, memory loss, inattention, decreased comprehension, insomnia, nightmares, dizziness, palpitations, etc.

2. Urinary and reproductive system diseases: Chronic prostatitis causes frequent urination, white dripping of urine, discomfort in the lower abdomen and perineum, soreness and weakness in the waist, loss of libido, impotence, premature ejaculation, and anejaculation. This can result in dizziness or headache after reading books or newspapers or studying for a short time. Long-term and frequent masturbation can often cause serious mental burden. Frequent ejaculation can cause decreased semen quality and sexual desire. Some people cannot ejaculate during normal sexual life due to an increased ejaculation stimulation threshold, which may affect fertility.

According to the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, masturbation and excessive sexual intercourse are the main causes of kidney qi deficiency, insufficient kidney essence and depletion of kidney fluid, which can lead to nocturnal emission, spermatorrhea, impotence, premature ejaculation or difficulty in ejaculation in men, as well as symptoms of sexual dysfunction such as low back pain, weak legs, tinnitus and hair loss. Masturbation can cause vulvitis, vaginitis, cystitis in women, and even lack of sexual desire or sexual frigidity. In severe cases, it can also cause pelvic congestion and low back pain, or lead to neurasthenia and mental illness.

Due to differences in genetics and living conditions, individual physiques and sexual functions vary, and the effects of masturbation are different at different stages: for example, masturbation during adolescence can cause dysfunction of the gonads, which is detrimental to normal development; for men, excessive masturbation before marriage can lead to kidney deficiency, depletion of kidney water, weakening of yang energy, and premature decline in sexual desire, which can affect the relationship between husband and wife and even cause family breakdown.

How to prevent children from masturbating

1. Don't be nervous. Treat it with a normal attitude and never hit, scold, or humiliate others. You have to remember that he is just seeking pleasure and does not understand social norms. Your beating, scolding and criticism will give him feedback (at least someone is paying attention to him), which will make him more likely to do the same.

2. Let your child "occupy" his hands with as many hand activities as possible. It is best to play games with him that require the coordination of both hands, such as stringing beads, building blocks, playing puzzles, blowing soap bubbles, throwing a ball into a basin, banging a spatula to make a sound, driving an inertia car, etc.

3. Read picture books with him and tell him stories. Ask more questions, let him answer, and divert his attention.

4. Talk to him about some "reasons". You can say: "Don't play with your little dick. If you play with your little dick with your hands, it will hurt when you pee!" "If you play like this, others will say you are ignorant. Look, who is the older brother who did this?" "It's not good to do this. Mom and Dad won't like it" etc.

5. Make him wear crotch-covering pants to avoid touching his "little penis".

6. Pants should be loose to avoid irritation to this area.

7. The "little penis" and the skin around it must be kept clean. If it is not clean, you will get urethritis after playing with it. In this way, touching because of pain is no longer a behavioral problem. I still have to go to the hospital for treatment.

8. Sometimes, due to nervousness and fear, people may touch life and death instruments temporarily. For example: changed caregiver, moved to a new house, just sent to kindergarten, etc. When you get home from get off work, give him more love and play his favorite games with him to relieve his tension. This way, temporary touching behavior doesn't become a solid habit.

9. When necessary, you can use a firm look to stop him, and quietly move his hand away, or squeeze his hand tightly, shake your head, and prevent him from continuing to do this kind of touching behavior.

10. If he just intended to touch his "little penis", but then gave up and stopped. He should be praised vigorously so that he can have a comparison.